So are you in a dilemma over whether or not to get back with your ex.
While this may mean that you and your former flame have both not been able to get over it, there are some things to be pondered over before diving back in.
You have to be sure that is it just about being cordial and friendly or is it much more on intimacy level.
It is quite possible that once you are talking, a realization grows that the spark, the chemistry and the excitement that you guys once shared is still alive.
It is surely not unheard of that exes get back together.
So here are points to go through before making that final nod.
*Be not ambiguous at all. Did you guys break up because of fundamental differences in personality, or because the timing and the circumstances weren’t favourable? If former, tread carefully and assess. If it is the latter, you might want to gauge the idea of getting back together.
*You know what tends to be easy sometimes? Sex with an ex. Safe and sound bet to a great orgasm. Which is why you need to be sure that it is dating and giving your relationship another try that is on BOTH your minds. No way to rebuild a relationship if you aren’t looking for the same thing.
*The chemistry might be intact, sure. You are both still as attractive physically and drawn to each other sexually. But what about the other aspects? Understanding, respect, conversations, the ability to trust, these are important things. And maybe you may want to stay friends for a while and get to know all of this before you pull a Take II.>