Getting into a relationship these days requires bit of flirting here and there and then judging on the chemistry before becoming serious.
While flirting may be a personal trait which one learns naturally by playing at it, there are certain rules to be aware about.
One of the first things to remember is that flirting is just another conversation you are having only with a witty, romantic twist to it
Thus there are those who insist on following at some of these rules.
It needs to be remembered that flirting is a game. So it better be fun, exciting and fulfilling game that leaves
you with a high of sorts.
Beaware of the going about it in a messy fashion and you will probably end up feeling inadequate. There is no need to be obsessed with scoring the other person and that is probably the best way to keep it funny and light.
It may also be seen as as just net practice for the bigger match. While honing your flirting skills is never a bad idea, it is essential to not go flirting around with EVERYONE in sight.
Loads of people hey nervous about flirting because they are so aware of what they are going about.
Treat flirting as a regular conversation and you will do so much better. Also, confidence is key.
The first thing to not to intimidate or scare the person that you are interested in.
You also need to be mindful of the response from the other side.
Build it up slowly till the time you are sure that things are on roll from here on.
Be ready to accept a no as a no.
It need not be hurtful to the ego of yours.
You never know as backing off at times sparks the fire in other person who then begins to chase you.
If you hit it off with the person, know where to draw the line and how far you can go.
This means that in the digital age, sexting, sending messages that are too forward and getting straight to business might be a lot of people’s thing but not everyone and definitely not right at the beginning.>